Dear fellow pilgrim,
Lenten has become the season of giving up things. Coffee. Cookies. Often something we usually should not have in the first place. I am not a friend of Lenten-givings-up for the sake of giving up.
But I understand where people are coming from. Originally these practices were meant as a practice of detachment. To let go of something which is important to us. To practice letting go instead of holding on.
And thus the practice of detachment can look different for different people just as we cherish different things.
You might feel your soul is stretched out, already thin, or in need of a truckload of ashes in order to lament the state of our world. You might have become as weary of Lenten-givings-up as you are of New Years resolutions. So have I. What could we even give up which would matter in the grand scheme of things, would matter to the child clinging to dear life in the ruins of Ukraine or Gaza?
And so I lament today…
Navalny.
Murdered hope.
Cowardly dictators.
cheered on by wanna be dictators.
Money makers.
who sell the truth for golden sneakers.
How long, oh Lord, how long shall this last?
Perhaps Lent is after all not so much about giving something up but more about deepening. About walking slowly and waiting patiently for Spring to finally come, about being present to the lengthening days even as the snow still flies, even when the present is full of mourning.
Waiting as pottery rests, to be burned in the oven, to be finished.
Lenten comes from the Germanic Old English “lencten” which means lengthen. Lengthen as in the days which lengthen towards Spring. Just as we walk through the lengthening days of winter’s ending there comes the time when birds start to sing. Spring is coming, dear traveler. With hope in its wings.
Do not despair, dear one. Hold on to hope. Be the hope.
A Blessing for your Lenten journey
The fire is not burning you
it only melts away what is not needed.
The weariness is not unending
it too will melt away,
in the potter’s fire.
Rest now in the storm.
Rest…
and dream of Spring.
And may hope abound within you, Almut
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About Almut
Almut Furchert, Dr. phil., Dipl. Psych. is a German American scholar and practitioner, a psychologist turned philosopher turned writer, traveler, photographer, retreat leader and mother of a pre-schooler. She has taught and published on authors like Kierkegaard, Buber, Frankl, Yalom, Edith Stein, and Hildegard of Bingen. Almut is also a Benedictine Oblate and lives with her family in a little college town in MN.
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Dear Almut, You touch a thousand strands, a thousands chords of the heart with your words. We need the fire and we need to wait in quiet expectation, as you say. Here are the words I find most compelling. "Perhaps Lent is after all not so much about giving something up but more about deepening. About walking slowly and waiting patiently for Spring to finally come, about being present to the lengthening days even as the snow still flies, even when the present is full of mourning." Thank you for your thoughts in this season of lengthening. Yes, Spring comes for He is faithful.
I like the line about "deepening" rather than "giving something up" . I have so much to give up: time wasted, scrolling, worrying, avoiding, ignoring etc. All little "nasties". What I need for lent is a deepening of /for me on what is important and what can I do. Moving forward feels so much better than wallowing. Lovely blessing, and I can smell spring.